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Feb 162012
 
What Is Female Ejaculation
Learn What It Is And How To Do It
Female Ejaculation Fluid Drop

There are two types of female sexual fluids. The most commonly known is called leukorrhea and is what lubricates the vaginal walls. It is a thicker fluid and is slightly acidic in order to prevent infections.

Female ejaculation is a thin fluid that originates in the gspot and is pushed out the urethra (where your urine comes out). The gspot is comprised of the Skenes / Paraurethral glands and is what makes this fluid.

Female Ejaculation is real, it is not urine and it is 
a normal and healthy sexual response.


Understanding Female Ejaculation

The Skenes glands that make up the gspot are the equivalent
of the male prostate and they produce similar fluid. This fluid 
comes out of the glands and into the urethra. Female ejaculate
can travel out and also back up into the bladder, which is called
retrograde ejaculation. Because it can mix with urine, many 
people think that it is urine and nothing more, however, that is 
not the case. Just as a man can urinate and ejaculate out of 
his urethra, so can a woman. The main difference here is that
women can do it at the same time. We will cover this in detail 
later in this article, however, what you should know is that the
large amounts of fluid is not urine.

Female ejaculation is something that can be done during an orgasm, however, it is not required in order for the ejaculate to come out. Amounts depend on a variety of factors such as hydration, the length and intensity of arousal and how many times it has been done beforehand.

Female Ejaculation


What Is In The Female Ejaculation Fluid?

The biggest myth out there is that it is urine and this is not true. However, as it can mix with urine, there is a lot of back and forth by people who are confused as to exactly what it is and is not. In studies where it has been tested, it has been determined that it contains glucose, and an enzyme which is also known as prostate acid phosphatase. This enzyme is a major component in semen as it comes from the prostate. Again, the gspot in a woman is essentially the same as a man’s prostate.

In addition the glucose and the enzyme it was also discovered that it contained some elements of urine (urea and creatine). There was typically trace amounts which suggests that either it simply was lining the urethra or a little came out with the ejaculate.

Those who have experience female ejaculation know that it is a sweet smelling, watery type of fluid and is not the typical fluid that one sees when a woman is wet from sexual arousal or having had an orgasm.

Female ejaculate is fairly consistent in the taste, smell, color and consistency. However, leukorrhea on the other hand varies in these factors and it seems to be influenced by diet and time frame of the menstrual cycle.


Why Don’t Many Women Know About It Or Do It?

Female ejaculation is not difficult; women typically don’t know about the elusive reasons they are not doing it. They are usually sabotaging their chances for gushing female ejaculate when they are having an orgasm without even knowing it. One of the main reasons that women do not know they can do it is because women will often feel like they need to urinate when they are ready to expel the ejaculate and because they think that urine will come out, they hold back. The ejaculation techniques that I have been training thousands of women and their partners on have been quite effective and not only allow for amazing ejaculations but will also intensify any type (women are capable of eight) of orgasm to mind blowing levels.


Getting Past Inhibitions

Prevention of female ejaculation is a simple clenching down of the Kegel muscles to stop the fluid from coming out. When a woman cannot relax, bare down and push to expel the ejaculate, it comes down to a matter of inhibitions. Often times women are taught not to be messy or sexually assertive. Pushing out ejaculate for a woman can feel like a major sexual breakthrough as it allows her to feel a level of freedom and uninhibited sensuality that she may not have ever felt before.

Some people erroneously think that not all women can ejaculate because they have tried and it has not worked for them. However, all women have the same equipment, so it can just be a matter of finding the right technique and overcoming psychological issues that may inhibit a woman sexually. Sometimes even the most confident of women have a difficult time ejaculating, so it is nothing to be embarrassed about and is certainly not an indicator that something is wrong if she cannot.


Is Female Ejaculation A Gspot Orgasm?

A common mistake that many make is to think that that female ejaculation is a result of a gspot orgasm. This is not true. As mentioned earlier, female ejaculation can occur without an orgasm occurring at all. Rather it is just the fluid that has built up in her gspot that gets pushed out. Pressure on the gspot can help that fluid to come out, so that is why it is easy to make the mistake of thinking that it is a gspot orgasm.


Female Ejaculation Facts

The Myths- 
The Truth-
  • Female ejaculation does not exist. 
  • Only rare women can achieve female ejaculation (or squirt).
  • Kegel exercise is the key to achieving female ejaculation.
  • Only women with prominent G-Spots can achieve female ejaculation.
  • Female ejaculation can only be achieved through G-Spot orgasms. 
  • Gynecologists are educated about this issue and provide women with correct information.
  • Women can only excrete a drop or two of female ejaculate, and if it is more (especially in the amounts that some women claim 1-2 cups) then it would be urine.
  • Female ejaculation is or becomes urinary incontinence (peeing). 
  • Women who have given birth are the only women capable of female ejaculation. 
  • There is only one way to achieve female ejaculation.
  • Female ejaculation comes from the Skenes/Paraurethral glands (also known as the G-Spot). 
  • Women do not realize that they can ejaculate because they are missing the cues of when they can do it.
  • There are specific techniques that can be taught to a woman to teach her how to do it and how to hold it if she does not wish to ejaculate.
  • Women can ejaculate without having a G-Spot orgasm and for that matter without having an orgasm at all!
  • Women can increase the amount of fluid they ejaculate by following specific steps.
  • Women can ejaculate multiple times within a short period.
  • Female ejaculation is not urine, is much like the consistency of water, is clear in color, and usually smells like nothing or has a slight sweet scent.
  • OBGYNs and other physicians often misunderstand or even misdiagnose female ejaculation.

 

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EROGENOUS ZONES

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Feb 072012
 
As curiosity is part of our genetic makeup, most men remain curious as to what turns a woman on. What spot can we touch to drive her absolutely crazy? Well gentlemen, today’s your lucky day because I have the top 10 answers.

Whereas it wouldn’t take a rocket scientist to discover men’s erogenous zones (the penis, the testicles and the anus), women get aroused through very diverse body parts. Ah women, what an exquisite species!

top 10 tantalizers

Let’s get started on our journey through a woman’s body, shall we?

10. Inner Thighs
The inside of the thighs are highly sensitive to touching, stroking and licking. Just like the back of the knees, inner thighs also have many nerve endings, therefore when you fondle them, you will turn her on like crazy.

Remember not to bite because the area is very sensitive and doing so would only cause her mild pain, which will, in turn, cause you plenty of pain.

9. Behind the Knees
Because of all the nerve endings behind the knees, you’d be surprised at how crazy a woman can become when you gently lick or nibble on the back of her knees.

Be careful not to overdo it — the area, after all, is very sensitive and you must be careful not to make the sensation annoying by getting too rough or tickling her too much.

8. Buttocks
Yes, it’s true. Lots of women like it when you play around with their behinds. A lot of women like mild spanking and squeezing of the buttocks. But there’s more…

Some women like having their butts licked, sucked and penetrated (with fingers, penis or both). For those who shudder at the thought of sticking their tongues out at Uranus , I’m sure that anal penetration, on the other hand, sounds quite inviting, huh?

7. Nape of the Neck
Just breathing on this part of her body will give her goose bumps all over. So just imagine her reaction when you use your tongue or teeth to get her aroused.

Use your hands too; lift her hair up gently as you bring your mouth closer to her neck. Then, as you sink your teeth into it, pull on her hair slightly so as to give that “I want you sooo bad” impression.

This part of a woman’s body is also a good place to start giving her that sensual massage you are famous for and no woman can resist.

6. Ears
Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Although blowing in her ear is acceptable, it’s not what women enjoy most. Besides the aforementioned things that they like having done to their ears, women like it when you whisper in their ears.

Don’t whisper things like, “Can you wash my gym shorts tonight?” Try to be somewhat erotic and give her the shivers up and down her spine instead.

hot spots from 5 to 15. Feet
Many women enjoy having their feet touched, massaged and some even enjoy having them licked and sucked. Assuming that their feet have been properly cleansed, women enjoy it when their men spend time caressing their soles, toes and ankles. Because these zones can all be ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be pleasant for the recipient. 

While some men cringe at the thought of wrapping their mouths around a body part that spends most of its day sweating in leather, many guys are actually pretty keen on the idea of giving their women a good toe lashing every now and then.

4. Wrists
This may come as a shock to most guys (women have wrists??!?), but women love having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their lovers. The next time you’re getting into the foreplay of things with your woman, begin kissing and caressing her wrists and just check out how impressed and turned on she’ll become!

3. Breasts (Nipples)
As I’m sure is no surprise to anyone, the breasts are very sexually sensitive and gentle fondling, squeezing, caressing, licking and sucking of the nipples can be extremely arousing.

Just as well, many women like it when their guys get a little rough with their little mountains , so find out how she likes it and give it to her the way she wants!

2. Vagina/Clitoris
The clitoris can be stimulated by using the tongue, the finger or, for the multi-talented Joe, both simultaneously. Some women like to guide their lovers as to the specific amount of pressure they enjoy.

For those who don’t get that luxury, it’s usually quite evident whether or not she’s pleased with your performance. If she begins getting squirmy, make sure that it’s because she’s enjoying it and not because you’re giving her that “annoying” feeling.

In the vagina, the G-spot may be a little difficult to locate, but some women find the search quite worthwhile. There is an area inside some women’s vaginas that produces intense sexual feelings when stimulated. Once located, very gentle stimulation gives an incredibly pleasant and unusual sensation.

And the number one female erogenous zone…

1. Lips
Yes, it’s true. If you know how to manipulate her lips just right through kissing, licking, sucking and biting, it is very possible that a kiss will lead to a lot more than that. Use your lips, your tongue and your teeth to play with her top and bottom lip and kiss her with absolute passion.

And there it is, the top 10 spots that will drive her crazy. Remember that all women are different and have their own likes and dislikes. Get to know her body and experiment. There’s so much more to women than just their sexual organs.

Get out your maps and begin your exploration!

FUCK BUDDIES

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Feb 072012
 

How does the first touch lead to a physical relationship between friends? How can two friends become fuck buddies? Find out how to get a fuck buddy right here.

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How to get a fuck buddy

In most cases, fuck buddies are just not planned. It just seems to happen by itself.

Unlike love, the characteristic about fuck buddies is that there is no planning, no first impressions and definitely no heartfelt gifts.

And the rest just seems to happen all by itself.

Of course, there has to be a wee bit of lustful flirting and mutual attraction. Other than that, there’s nothing at all that should be done to start a fuck buddy relationship.

When do people become fuck buddies?

It can happen when you least expect it. And surprisingly, most of the times, a fuck buddy is found when you’re down in the pits, almost always when you’re trying to get over a broken relationship.

A fuck buddy with whom you can get physically intimate, and love the fact that there is someone with whom one can relate physically, and yet not be held down by the rules of love.

One can end up becoming fuck buddies with a common friend, not just through an act of consoling, but also on a drunken escapade. One pint too many can have your hands moving over more than just the curves of your glass, and you’d probably end up with your arms round the shoulder of an attractive friend.

And well, a roving hand just can’t stop over a warm shoulder, can it?

The bright side of fuck buddies

When you’re ambitious and cannot understand the point of thinking about someone else’s feelings and happiness, or if you just don’t want to be held down by another person’s feelings, a fuck buddy is a perfect solution. You don’t have to keep in touch with this person every day or every week, nor do you have to remember anniversaries or put up with cute little love tantrums.

But you can always call your fuck buddy and go all the way, whenever and wherever you want. This form of non-committal love can be fun, if you’re still looking for that hint of long term love, but just don’t want to jump in, especially if you’ve always felt that true love can wait while you explore the different opportunities life has to offer.

And most people, who are afraid of commitment, and even more scared of the typical one night stand, find this whole arrangement of fuck buddies a bit more secure and comforting.

Is there a dark side of fuck buddies?

As much as I’d love to prove that there is a deep, dark abyss to fuck buddies, there just isn’t one. There’s nothing wrong in hooking up with someone just because you are physically attracted to someone.

Nor is there anything wrong in having someone as a fuck buddy just because this person is your buddy. And are you going to get an STD by doing this? Well, as much as we’d like to skirt the issue, no one is ever completely safe from an STD, we all have heard of cheating partners and the ‘I-just-wanted-to-know-how-it-would-feel-like’ types of lovers.

The only issue that may crop up is, perhaps, you falling in love with your fuck buddy or getting a huge crush on them.

Getting yourself a fuck buddy

Remember, getting yourself a fuck buddy is very different from getting yourself a loving partner. It just doesn’t work the same way. You can’t woo someone into sleeping with you, or get them drunk in the hope of having sex. It has to happen naturally, over time. And there has to be mutual sexual attraction.

But the best way to get yourself a fuck buddy is by text flirting and seeing if your hot friend starts reciprocating. We’ve got an entire guide on text flirting which should help you get yourself an attractive fuck buddy.

Now that you know how to get a fuck buddy, go on and read about its and your comments on pros and cons or any other opinion is welcomed.

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