Making love is a mind-blowing experience on its own, but throw in some good old fun and games, and sex can turn into something much more eccentric. Couples are always testing out new and different ways to keep their sex lives interesting, and dressing up/role play is one of those ways.
Costumes are a part of many a couple’s bedroom antics and can lead not only to incredible foreplay, but a different kind of intimacy. Living out your fantasies with your woman won’t just keep things kinky, it’ll definitely work to enhance your desire for her (and vice versa). Now I’m not referring to your typical French Maid and demanding boss kind of role playing. Rather, I’m talking about that kinky element that could be missing from what may otherwise be a very enriching sex life.
The beauty of role playing is that you get to be anyone you want, and that usually means that inhibitions (both yours and hers) slowly diminish into nothingness. Your best bet is to start off with something simple — in other words, don’t show up at your girlfriend’s house dressed like a woman and expect her to start spanking your butt for being a “naughty girl” — she won’t just slam the door in your face, she’ll change the locks and have you arrested.
People dress up for sex for an abundance of reasons. And dressing up doesn’t have to involve spending a fortune on latex and adult nappies; the most important part of your costume is what it does to your imagination.
Sometimes couples need a change of pace or sometimes guys want to lay back and let their women take charge of their bodies. So to add a little intrigue to the mix, they dress up in ways that will enforce their roles for the evening.
Just like her ability to drive you crazy by donning a barely there thong and black lace bra, dressing up for each other can turn a night of lovemaking into a wild ride in a virtual jungle.
The most amazing part of dressing up before you dress down is that although you’re making love to the same woman, costumes can serve to make you feel otherwise. She’s no longer the mother of your children or your accountant girlfriend; tonight she’s a criminal and it’s your job to put it, I mean her, away.
Turning into someone else doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re bored with your partner, but if you’ve already done everything under the sun and have managed to penetrate virtually all of her orifices, then you need to keep things new, and outfits can help.
Dressing up can ensure that you will act out the scenario without feeling awkward.