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Sex seems to be more than a hormonal discharge and some short moments of pure pleasure. Scientists show that sex is extremely beneficial for our health, while the lack of an active sex life might have negative effects. But too much sex, can also be harmful: more than thrice a week it can weaken the immune system, making us vulnerable to infections…

1. Our mental and emotional health balance is clearly influenced by sex. Abstinence is known to cause from anxiety to paranoia and depression… In fact, in case of light depressions, after having sex the brain releases endorphins, that decrease stress, inducing a state of euphoria.

2. Sex can be a beauty treatment. While having sex, a woman’s body doubles the estrogen level, and this makes her hair shine and the skin becomes softer.

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Sex Games

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Oct 012012
 

All you need to play is a vivid imagination and a healthy sexual

Spin the Bottle, Two Minutes in the Closet, Strip Poker, Naked Twister — in college, flirty games are a rite of passage, but once you settle into your 20s and 30s, and into a real relationship, it’s easy to let all the grown-up stuff push playtime to the back of the line. Bad idea!!

 

1Erotic seduction involves much more than candlelight, soft music, strawberries, and champagne. If you really want to play a sexy game and make sex sizzle, you need to think well beyond the bedroom. Unleash your masterful wild side and try out some new sexy adventures that will delight you both.Sex games not only break up bedroom boredom, they also open up the lines of communication and give you an excuse to expand your sexual repertoire. Oh yeah, and did I mention that sex games add a new meaning to fun between the sheets?

 

tip #1: get naughty Ever wonder why making love anywhere besides the bedroom is such a turn-on? Carrying out forbidden sexual antics is a surefire way to get sexual energy pumping through your veins. The knowledge that you’re breaking the rules, so to speak, and the idea of getting caught, definitely serves as quite the aphrodisiac.

 

tip #2: savor the anticipation Sexual anticipation leads to the greatest sex, that’s no secret. And once you engage in some kinky fun, you’ll always be left wondering what’s coming up next (besides you, of course).

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tip #3: make “sexy” a lifestyle Make sexiness part of your everyday life. That doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to engage in sex every day, just don’t behave in a sexual or sensual manner only when you want to get down and dirty.

 

tip #4: push your limits It’s time to boldly go where you never knew you could go before. Explore the boundaries of your inhibitions. So long as both of you are willing and interested, anything goes. Take things beyond vanilla sex and enjoy every minute of it. Even if you only do certain things once, reliving the memory when you’re making love will serve as a sexual enhancer anyway.

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let the games begin! The best part of provocative playtime is that no one loses. Not only does playing sex games satiate your sex drive and let you live out your fantasies, carnal competition can bring you closer together. It’s a win-win situation.

 

The hair down there: How do you deal with it? Some guys tackle it head-on with egotistical nonchalance, while others deal with it privately in the corners of their own bathrooms. Regardless of the approach — and there should be an approach — trimming your pubes is a highly beneficial move. First of all, it reduces the cloudy bush that can minimize the appearance of your favorite appendage, and secondly it increases the sensuality and fluidity of make-out sessions with your lady.

The decision is a no-brainer, really. Choosing the proper approach to removing pubic hair, however, isn’t always so simple. Several options exist, all with varying degrees of difficulty and all with their own set of pros and cons. The informed manscaper, who wants nothing more than an alluring pubic area, should be acquainted with all his options of pubic hair removal. That way, when the time comes for trimming back the bush, he’ll know the appropriate way to remove his pubic hair.

Trimming
Perhaps the most basic and judicious way involved in removing pubic hair and cutting away the shag hiding your junk is simply to trim it back. Two affordable options exist: scissors and electric trimmers. Scissors are acceptable when used by skilled hands, but an electric trimmer is highly recommended for removing pubic hair. Scissors, aside from being dangerous to wield around such a sensitive area, can result in an uneven, scraggly look that almost defeats the purpose unless you’re careful. Be smart, use a trimmer.

Pros
Affordable option(s) exist that can be purchased/stored without any embarrassment. With a trimmer, you get a uniform, complementary length of pubic hair.
Maintenance is relatively easy.

Cons
Cleanup can be a mess since you need to trim your pubic hair while it’s dry. With scissors, you can end up with a choppy-looking bush that’s comical instead of alluring. Maintenance requires frequent upkeep and attention (every 12-14 days, depending).

Shaving
The razor is a very popular weapon of choice when removing pubic hair, and justifiably so. For most guys, this grooming technique is familiar and a good solution. When shaving away pubic hair, not only do you get a super-clean, hygienic look, but you also get to do it discretely in the shower, with tools already stocked in the medicine cabinet. Thus, it’s a well-rounded option for a lot of guys. Want a piece of advice for optimal results? Use a women’s razor halfway through a hot shower.

Pros
It’s a simple, familiar process that doesn’t take too long. Leaves the skin around your penis and scrotum smooth and appealing to the touch.
It can be done in the shower, so there’s relatively little cleanup involved.

Cons
As you learned as a teenager: Once you start, you can’t stop. It can leave skin irritations such as razor burns, rashes and ingrown hairs. It requires continual upkeep (every two to three days) and can be itchy as it grows back.

Depilatories.
Many well-known brands now have a men’s depilatory entry on the hair-remover market, and many guys are taking stock in this technique for removing pubic hair. These creams, which dissolve hair so that it can be wiped away, are a mid-market option: They cost a bit more than trimmers or razors, but lessen the amount of time involved in upkeep. While they might be better for those areas around your goods, if you choose this option, be wise and test the product on the inside of your elbow first, then wait 48 hours to be sure your skin has no adverse reactions.

Pros
It’s pain-free (ideally), easy to use and affordable.
It lasts longer than shaving and isn’t as cumbersome or painful as waxing.
Hair grows back softer and less coarse than it does with shaving.

Cons
It’s harsh and abrasive to the skin, so you have to time them perfectly.
There’s a possibility you may have an allergic, itchy reaction to the cream.
Unpleasant smells can be a residual side-effect.

We’ve got a few more tips on removing pubic hair for you….

Waxing
Long thought of as a woman’s prerogative, waxing is making great strides in gender equality. Men have caught on to the many benefits that waxing offers: smooth, longer-lasting results. In fact, it’s the last stop before permanent hair removal, so it does have its advantages. However, some bad does come with the good: Waxing can be painful, expensive and unsuitable for delicate regions, especially when it comes to removing pubic hair. It’s a mixed bag of tricks, so approach this method with caution and an open mind.

Pros
The results last two to four weeks, and continued waxing leads to diminished hair growth over time.
Many waxing salons now cater specifically to men, providing expertise and discretion.
Waxing can be done at home, which gives you more privacy and significant cost savings.

Cons
It’s painful and expensive, while the outcome will be equal to that of cheaper, gentler options.
Women dominate waxing salons; be ready to share your business (literally and figuratively).
The skin on your testicles is very sensitive. Some waxing salons won’t agree to wax this area.

Electrolysis
If you’re ready to say good-bye to the bush for good, say hello to electrolysis. The only hair-removal option proven to be 100% permanent, electrolysis stands as the option for serious contenders. In only one visit you can eliminate wiry pubic hair forever. (Know that your visit, though, could last for hours and won’t be such an enjoyable experience.) Guys ready to play for keeps should definitely go a round with electrolysis.

Pros
It’s a permanent option, so say farewell to your pubes for good.
It only requires one treatment.
It works well for removing any color of pubic hair, unlike laser removal.

Cons
It’s an expensive option, so say farewell to your cash as well.
Treatment time can last anywhere from 2 to 12 hours.
It causes much more discomfort than laser hair removal, but not as much as waxing.

Laser
A newer, less painful alternative to electrolysis, laser hair removal provides another permanent solution. However, the provisos weigh in favor of the cons, rather than the pros: Laser removal, though quick and relatively painless, requires multiple treatments and isn’t guaranteed to stop hair growth permanently. Both of these details can lead to added expenses during and after the treatment phase. It’s not without its merits, though, so just be thoughtful in taking this approach to removing pubic hair.

Pros
Treatment time only takes about two to three minutes, and that’s convenient.
It’s generally painless, or at least offers much less discomfort than electrolysis or waxing.
It works well for removing dark-colored pubic hair, which probably means the majority.

Cons
Several treatments are required, and that gets expensive.
Results aren’t always 100% permanent.
It’s not effective on light-colored pubic hair, which eliminates it as a viable option for some.
manscapers beware

If you’re not trimming your pubes, YOU SHOULD BE.Not only will the visual impact be dramatic and self-gratifying, but the rave reviews you receive from your lady friend(s) will do wonders for your libido. So, using the information outlined above, decide on the option that best suits your style and get to manscaping your midsection knowledgably and knowingly.

SEXUAL ATTRACTION

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Jun 302012
 

Sexual attraction is attraction on the basis of sexual desire or the quality of arousing such interest. Sexual attractiveness or sex appeal refers to an individual’s ability to attract the sexual or erotic interest of another person, and is a factor in sexual selection or mate choice. The attraction can be to the physical or other qualities or traits of a person, or to such qualities in the context in which they appear. The attraction may be to a person’s looks or movements or to their voice or smell, besides other factors. The attraction may be enhanced by a person’s adornments, clothing, perfume, hair style, and anything else which can attract the sexual interest of another person. It can also be influenced by individual genetic, psychological, or cultural factors, or to other, more amorphous qualities of the person. Sexual attraction is also a response to another person that depends on a combination of the person possessing the traits and also on the criteria of the person who is attracted.

If neither your weight nor your looks have anything to do with whether people find you sexually attractive, then what is it that makes one person have a crowd of admirers while another individual sits there forlorn and abandoned?” people might ask.

I know that this will come as a shock to people who have been brought up in a Puritanical tradition that expects human sexuality to be easily subjected to ideology and reason. Still, the truth is that sexual attraction has nothing whatsoever to do with easily quantifiable things like weight, height, size, number of college diplomas, IQ, figures in the bank statement, or anything of the kind.

It happens very often that a tall, beautiful, ripped guy with fantastic hair and a sunny disposition can’t find a date in a decade. And in the meanwhile, a short, skinny, balding dude with a nasty personality gets crowds of women flock to him as if by magic. (I know both these guys, so please don’t argue with me about it.) How often do you look at a female friend who is not only nice and kind but also stunningly beautiful with a modelesque body and wonder how the hell it is possible that somebody like her, is single and can’t get to the second date for love or money? While the short-legged, plump woman with bad skin and an extremely bitchy personality is juggling four men at the same time and trying to carve out space for numbers five and six.

If you forget about what you see on television and look at people who surround you, you will, without a doubt, realize that appearance and weight in no way correlate with whether one has any personal life whatsoever or can get anybody give them a second look.

What really attracts people sexually is an exuberant, happy and healthy sexuality. Sexually healthy people give off little tells that we observe and process often without even realizing it. A healthy sexuality entails, among other things, a different relationship with one’s body than the one that less sexually healthy people have and a different attitude to sensual experiences. A sexually healthy person moves in a less constricted, freer way, holds him or herself different. You can say a lot about people’s sexual health if you observe them select and ingest food and drink, buy clothes, touch different fabrics, choose scent. Whenever we meet a person, we immediately pick up on such things. Those who show many signs of a happy sexuality, attract a lot of people. Those who give off none, attract nobody.

It is a symptom of a sexually unhappy culture that one actually needs to explain that sexual attraction is caused not by how many inches your waist measures but by how sexually healthy you are.

I don’t know if I need to clarify this, but just to be on the safe side I will. Sexual health is a capacity to enjoy sex for its own sake without needing to justify it or feeling guilty about it. It’s very similar to a healthy relationship with food. When we eat (or deprive ourselves of food) to relieve stress, exorcise emotions, punish ourselves, out of a sense of obligation, because of social expectations, etc. it is obvious that this is not a healthy relationship with food. It’s exactly the same with sex.

Chemistry Lesson!!

Scientists who study the neurochemical basis of emotions believe that there are three stages to love, each with their own hormonal controllers:

  • Stage 1 – lust – ruled by testosterone and estrogen (the sexual hormones)
  • Stage 2 – attraction – controlled by dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin (those feel-good compounds)
  • Stage 3 – attachment – initiated by oxytocin (aka: the hormone thought to create the bond between mother and child; known to play a role in trust, empathy and generosity)

I would suggest a potential 4th stage – jealousy – which has recently been linked to oxytocin as well. And a potential 5th stage – infidelity – which has been linked to a genetic allele in some studies, and has also been linked to high levels of the hormone estradiol in women.

“sexual pleasure is, I agree, a passion to which all others are subordinate but in which they all unite.”

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