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The Kama Sutra – Sanskrit:is an ancient Indian Hindi text widely considered to be the standard work on human sexual behavior in Sanskrit literature written by Vātsyāyana. A portion of the work consists of practical advice on sexual intercourse. It is largely in prose, with many inserted anustubh poetry verses. “Kāma” which is one of the three goals of Hindu life, means sensual or sexual pleasure, and “sūtra” literally means a thread or line that holds things together, and more metaphorically refers to an aphorism (or line, rule, formula), or a collection of such aphorisms in the form of a manual. Contrary to popular perception, especially in the western world, Kama sutra is not just an exclusive sex manual; it presents itself as a guide to a virtuous and gracious living that discusses the nature of love, family life and other aspects pertaining to pleasure oriented faculties of human life.
The Kama Sutra is the oldest and most notable of a group of texts known generically as Kama Shastra (Sanskrit: Kāma Śāstra). Traditionally, the first transmission of Kama Shastra or “Discipline of Kama” is attributed to Nandi the sacred bull, Shiva’s doorkeeper, who was moved to sacred utterance by overhearing the lovemaking of the god and his wife Parvati and later recorded his utterances for the benefit of mankind.

Pleasure and spirituality

A Sexual Pose from Mukteswar Temple in Bhubaneswar, Orissa
Some Indian philosophies follow the “four main goals of life”,known as thepurusharthas:
Dharma: Virtuous living.
Artha: Material prosperity.
Kama: Aesthetic and erotic pleasure.
Moksha: Liberation.
Dharma, Artha and Kama are aims of everyday life, while Moksha is release from the cycle of death and rebirth.

Of the first three, virtue is the highest goal, a secure life the second and pleasure the least important. When motives conflict, the higher ideal is to be followed. Thus, in making money virtue must not be compromised, but earning a living should take precedence over pleasure, but there are exceptions.

In childhood, Vātsyāyana says, a person should learn how to make a living; youth is the time for pleasure, and as years pass one should concentrate on living virtuously and hope to escape the cycle of rebirth. The Kama Sutra acknowledges that the senses can be dangerous: ‘Just as a horse in full gallop, blinded by the energy of his own speed, pays no attention to any post or hole or ditch on the path, so two lovers, blinded by passion, in the friction of sexual battle, are caught up in their fierce energy and pay no attention to danger’.

Many in the Western world wrongly consider the Kama Sutra to be a manual for tantric sex. While sexual practices do exist within the very wide tradition of Hindu Tantra, the Kama Sutra is not a Tantric text, and does not touch upon any of the sexual rites associated with some forms of Tantric practice.

Written almost two millennia ago, it seems the Kama Sutra has made its way to popular culture and couples are aching to use it to enhance their bedroom antics. And although the sexual positions themselves are only a minute part of the book, I’m sure you’re interested in everything that comes before them.

The Kama Sutra makes it clear that you should make it a point to pay attention to every inch of your lover’s body. Don’t leave anything out and don’t place so much importance on the actual sex itself.

The act of lovemaking in its entirety should be thoroughly enjoyed. Be totally aware of your senses; smell, taste, touch, hear, and see her. And of course, she will do the same.

But before you begin, you have to prepare for such a vivid experience by understanding yourself (and her for that matter).

indulge in your experiences

Sex is a remarkable experience and you can keep it memorable by constantly delving into new and diverse experiences. This concludes our Kama Sutra experience. I hope you enjoy yourself, or are about to.

Swinging or (rarely) partner swapping is a non-monogamous behaviour, in which singles or partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity. Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from spontaneous sexual activity at informal gatherings of friends to planned regular social meetings to hooking up with like-minded people at a swingers’ club. It can also involve Internet-based swinger social networking-services online.

The phenomenon of swinging, or at least its wider discussion and practice, is regarded by some as arising from the upsurge in sexual activity during the sexual revolution of the 1960s, made possible by the invention of the contraceptive pill. The older term wife swapping, once considered to be equivalent to “swinging”, is now criticised as being androcentric where the husband is presumed to be in control of the sexual activities of a couple and also does not accurately describe the full range of sexual activities in which singles or couples may take part.

Swingers in the lifestyle engage in lots of different sexual activities with others for a variety of reasons. For many, an advantage is the increased quality, quantity and frequency of sex. Some people engage in swinging to add variety into their otherwise conventional sex lives or for curiosity. Some couples see swinging as a healthy outlet and means to strengthen their relationship. Others regard such activities as merely social and recreational interaction with others.

The swing lifestyle is a variety of ideas to a variety of people wanting different encounters. The things they share can be a adoration for the erotic experience and also the quest for sexual enjoyment. You will find three significant types of swingers: couples, single females and single males. Couples are definitely the reasons for the swing lifestyle.

Other terms sometimes associated with casual sex include recreational sex, social sex, physical relationship, or No-Strings-Attached (NSA) sex. Recreational sex or social sex refers to sexual activity in which people engage which focuses on the sexual pleasure of the activity without an emotional aspect or commitment. Recreational sex can take place in a number of contexts. It may, for example, take place in an open marriage, such as among swingers where sex is viewed as a social occasion, or in an open relationship. It can also take place in a casual relationship.

RECREATIONAL SEX: Pursuit of Pleasure!!!

In modern usage, an orgy is a sex party where guests engage in promiscuous or multifarious sexual activity or group sex. An orgy is similar to debauchery, which refers to excessive indulgence in sensual pleasures.  Swinger’s parties do not always conform to this designation due to the fact that at many swinger parties the sexual partners may all know each other or at least have some commonality among economic class, educational attainment or other shared attributes. Some swingers contend that an orgy, as opposed to a sex party, requires some anonymity of sexual partners in complete sexual abandon. Other kinds of “sex party” may fare less well with this labelling.

Participation in an “orgy” is a common sexual fantasy and group sex targeting such consumers is a sub genre in pornographic films. The term is also used metaphorically in expressions, such as an “orgy of colour” or an “orgy of destruction” to indicate excess, overabundance. The term “orgiastic” does not generally connote group sex and is closer to the classical roots and this metaphorical usage.

Unjustly the most vivid link of Roman religion and sex or orgy is with the Vestal Virgins but in fact they were just that, virgins. Breaking their vote of chastity was punished with a whipping and being buried alive. I suppose that similarly to porno films involving nuns the notion of transgression is likely to make the Vestals quite titillating to the modern public and possibly to their contemporaries also. However their public position was so elevated that any misdemeanours would have been quite limited and severely punished with capital punishment. Although, now that I think about it, there was a direct tunnel joining the Palace on the Palatine hill and the Vestals’ temple…..   Orgy sex parties is where Groups of friends get together for food, drinks and then the kinks. Join the house LMP for Orgy or Group Sex Parties. Once there, it’s an all out ORGY SEX PARTY – girl on girl, couple sharing a girl, two guys on one girl…you name it, they’re doing it. This is a little deeper than swinging – here they can fuck multiple people you can be screwing two at a time and can switch like musical pussies!

Multi-partner Sex/Group Sex

Perhaps the idea of watching others gets you hot, or maybe you’re more of a ‘middle of the action’ kind of person. No matter what your preference might be, you’re not alone in

contemplating the erotic aspects of Multi-partner Sex (Threesomes and Group Sex) – including their (prospective) relationship to lifestyle choices such as Swinging and Poylamory.
Many characteristics of Multi-partner Sex (MPS) are extremely appealing to both men and women. But because this sexual activity challenges many socially accepted norms, it is not for everyone. However, if you’re happy to expand your sexual boundaries, here’s a ‘what you need to know introduction’ to collective sexual nirvana…

MPS relationships are loosely described as non-monogamous sexual activities or lifestyles, whereby the partners involved do so with the full knowledge and consent of each other. As such, sexual activities with others within the boundaries agreed on are not viewed as ‘cheating’. It may involve more than two people engaged in sex with each other simultaneously, or it may be simply the giving of permission for one and/or the other engaging in sex separately with another.

Relationships such as these have been practiced for centuries in many cultures around the world. In spite of this, many societies and religions still consider them forbidden. At any rate, sexual fashions do fluctuate over time (e.g. anal sex and oral sex were once considered taboo – and illegal in some places) and consequently threesomes and group sex are not as publicly shunned as they once were. In fact, they are depicted quite regularly in adult films and commonly referred to in erotic literature. Additionally, opportunities to find like-minded partakers can be found in settings like swingers clubs, conventions, college parties and online forums.

DefinitionMPS is the act of performing sexual activity with more than one partner at the same time. The term refers to Threesomes (three participants) and Group Sex (four or more participants).There is no single way to engage in MPS, and getting physical with each person in the group is not a requirement. It may be as simple as an even number of partners going at it in the same room, or a full-scale sexual encounter where everyone does everything with everybody. Partners may also be of any gender or orientation.
There are many reasons to enjoy safe, non-committal sex with like-minded individuals, or to invite one (or many) into an existing sexual relationship. Consider the following :

It can be great fuel for a stable, sexual relationship. Not only does it experiment with the boundaries of a relationship, it can actually boost your trust and intimacy.
You learn new skills and sexual positions. It boosts your sexual confidence and enhances your sexual experience; after an encounter like that, you definitely walk with a new swagger!
A highly erotic experience, the sexual energy is so charged that to be part of it could be one of the most thrilling experiences of one’s life. It makes for great memories and impressive stories (if you are permitted to share them, that is)!

It’s many a person’s fantasy to have sex among others. When it comes to couples, some get aroused by the anticipation and acting out of a sexual activity together, while others enjoy ‘performing’ for the other.  You confront what your sexual preferences ‘might be’ by being free to experiment across the often ‘hazy’ spectrum of sexual orientation. If you’ve ever felt inclined to experiment with same-sex lovers, but never had the nerve to try, MPS is an excellent forum to do a test run.  There’s safety in numbers – any sexual activity that goes beyond your limits can be dealt with by changing your role in the group, or by turning your attention to another lover.

Sharing is caring ….. Enjoy!!

As curiosity is part of our genetic makeup, most men remain curious as to what turns a woman on. What spot can we touch to drive her absolutely crazy? Well gentlemen, today’s your lucky day because I have the top 10 answers.

Whereas it wouldn’t take a rocket scientist to discover men’s erogenous zones (the penis, the testicles and the anus), women get aroused through very diverse body parts. Ah women, what an exquisite species!

top 10 tantalizers

Let’s get started on our journey through a woman’s body, shall we?

10. Inner Thighs
The inside of the thighs are highly sensitive to touching, stroking and licking. Just like the back of the knees, inner thighs also have many nerve endings, therefore when you fondle them, you will turn her on like crazy.

Remember not to bite because the area is very sensitive and doing so would only cause her mild pain, which will, in turn, cause you plenty of pain.

9. Behind the Knees
Because of all the nerve endings behind the knees, you’d be surprised at how crazy a woman can become when you gently lick or nibble on the back of her knees.

Be careful not to overdo it — the area, after all, is very sensitive and you must be careful not to make the sensation annoying by getting too rough or tickling her too much.

8. Buttocks
Yes, it’s true. Lots of women like it when you play around with their behinds. A lot of women like mild spanking and squeezing of the buttocks. But there’s more…

Some women like having their butts licked, sucked and penetrated (with fingers, penis or both). For those who shudder at the thought of sticking their tongues out at Uranus , I’m sure that anal penetration, on the other hand, sounds quite inviting, huh?

7. Nape of the Neck
Just breathing on this part of her body will give her goose bumps all over. So just imagine her reaction when you use your tongue or teeth to get her aroused.

Use your hands too; lift her hair up gently as you bring your mouth closer to her neck. Then, as you sink your teeth into it, pull on her hair slightly so as to give that “I want you sooo bad” impression.

This part of a woman’s body is also a good place to start giving her that sensual massage you are famous for and no woman can resist.

6. Ears
Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Although blowing in her ear is acceptable, it’s not what women enjoy most. Besides the aforementioned things that they like having done to their ears, women like it when you whisper in their ears.

Don’t whisper things like, “Can you wash my gym shorts tonight?” Try to be somewhat erotic and give her the shivers up and down her spine instead.

5. Feet
Many women enjoy having their feet touched, massaged and some even enjoy having them licked and sucked. Assuming that their feet have been properly cleansed, women enjoy it when their men spend time caressing their soles, toes and ankles. Because these zones can all be ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be pleasant for the recipient. 

While some men cringe at the thought of wrapping their mouths around a body part that spends most of its day sweating in leather, many guys are actually pretty keen on the idea of giving their women a good toe lashing every now and then.

4. Wrists
This may come as a shock to most guys (women have wrists??!?), but women love having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their lovers. The next time you’re getting into the foreplay of things with your woman, begin kissing and caressing her wrists and just check out how impressed and turned on she’ll become!

3. Breasts (Nipples)
As I’m sure is no surprise to anyone, the breasts are very sexually sensitive and gentle fondling, squeezing, caressing, licking and sucking of the nipples can be extremely arousing.

Just as well, many women like it when their guys get a little rough with their little mountains , so find out how she likes it and give it to her the way she wants!

2. Vagina/Clitoris
The clitoris can be stimulated by using the tongue, the finger or, for the multi-talented Joe, both simultaneously. Some women like to guide their lovers as to the specific amount of pressure they enjoy.

For those who don’t get that luxury, it’s usually quite evident whether or not she’s pleased with your performance. If she begins getting squirmy, make sure that it’s because she’s enjoying it and not because you’re giving her that “annoying” feeling.

In the vagina, the G-spot may be a little difficult to locate, but some women find the search quite worthwhile. There is an area inside some women’s vaginas that produces intense sexual feelings when stimulated. Once located, very gentle stimulation gives an incredibly pleasant and unusual sensation.

And the number one female erogenous zone…

1. Lips
Yes, it’s true. If you know how to manipulate her lips just right through kissing, licking, sucking and biting, it is very possible that a kiss will lead to a lot more than that. Use your lips, your tongue and your teeth to play with her top and bottom lip and kiss her with absolute passion.

And there it is, the top 10 spots that will drive her crazy. Remember that all women are different and have their own likes and dislikes. Get to know her body and experiment. There’s so much more to women than just their sexual organs.

Get out your maps and begin your exploration!