This might be an unusual and probably stupid-sounding question, but… supposing you would prefer *all* sexual activity to involve a condom? (I mean personally, obviously can’t force that on other men there.) What’s the etiquette if a lady went to offer a BBBJ, or even started to give you a BBBJ but you would prefer to use a condom? Do you carry the condoms around? Or are there loads dotted around the place, always in easy grabbing instance?
It’s just that while the risk of STDs (giving and receiving) is much lower for oral, it’s not non-existant. Girls giving blowjobs to someone with HIV can become infected if they have even a minor case of occasional bleeding gums (eg after brushing teeth) and you can get it from precum as well as cum. I’m not saying it’s as risky as unprotected sex, or anal sex, but there have been cases. I’m also not suggesting that the girls have HIV, please don’t get me wrong. Just that there’s some risky behavior and surprised that (although discretional) there’s a lot of talk of BBBJs. And no, I don’t have HIV - but I did have a scare and tests, hence how I know.
I know the obvious answer is ‘if you’re that worried, just don’t go to a party’ but I’d be interested to see views on this. We live in an age of increased awareness, but whereas once there was the excuse of ignorance now it just seems that a blind eye is turned…
