You’ll always find your own issues with the girls.
There is a chemistry with some & not with others. I’ve had this myself at all the parties i’ve attended, but when it does “click” with a certain lady it more than makes up for any disapponting liasons & i’ve never been to a party where there was no “click”!
Thats life! You don’t get on with everyone outside of the party scene, let alone in it!

This might be an unusual and probably stupid-sounding question, but… supposing you would prefer *all* sexual activity to involve a condom? (I mean personally, obviously can’t force that on other men there.) What’s the etiquette if a lady went to offer a BBBJ, or even started to give you a BBBJ but you would prefer to use a condom? Do you carry the condoms around? Or are there loads dotted around the place, always in easy grabbing instance?

It’s just that while the risk of STDs (giving and receiving) is much lower for oral, it’s not non-existant. Girls giving blowjobs to someone with HIV can become infected if they have even a minor case of occasional bleeding gums (eg after brushing teeth) and you can get it from precum as well as cum. I’m not saying it’s as risky as unprotected sex, or anal sex, but there have been cases. I’m also not suggesting that the girls have HIV, please don’t get me wrong. Just that there’s some risky behavior and surprised that (although discretional) there’s a lot of talk of BBBJs. And no, I don’t have HIV - but I did have a scare and tests, hence how I know.

I know the obvious answer is ‘if you’re that worried, just don’t go to a party’ but I’d be interested to see views on this. We live in an age of increased awareness, but whereas once there was the excuse of ignorance now it just seems that a blind eye is turned…

Bobbob - 26 August 2009 10:50 AM

This might be an unusual and probably stupid-sounding question, but… supposing you would prefer *all* sexual activity to involve a condom? (I mean personally, obviously can’t force that on other men there.) What’s the etiquette if a lady went to offer a BBBJ, or even started to give you a BBBJ but you would prefer to use a condom? Do you carry the condoms around? Or are there loads dotted around the place, always in easy grabbing instance?

It’s just that while the risk of STDs (giving and receiving) is much lower for oral, it’s not non-existant. Girls giving blowjobs to someone with HIV can become infected if they have even a minor case of occasional bleeding gums (eg after brushing teeth) and you can get it from precum as well as cum. I’m not saying it’s as risky as unprotected sex, or anal sex, but there have been cases. I’m also not suggesting that the girls have HIV, please don’t get me wrong. Just that there’s some risky behavior and surprised that (although discretional) there’s a lot of talk of BBBJs. And no, I don’t have HIV - but I did have a scare and tests, hence how I know.

I know the obvious answer is ‘if you’re that worried, just don’t go to a party’ but I’d be interested to see views on this. We live in an age of increased awareness, but whereas once there was the excuse of ignorance now it just seems that a blind eye is turned…

BBBJ’S are at girls discretion, some do & some don’t, so if your preference is for covered BJ, then inform the lady you happen to be with. Condoms are freely provided in each room & are readily at hand, there is never a shortage. Vaginal sex is ALWAYS covered & ANAL is not even on the menu.
From a personal point of view, i prefere BBBJ if the lady will do it, but if not, then i don’t mind if her preference is covered!
All the girls are great & its a two way pleasure thing at parties! You can certainly stick by your preferences & beliefs & don’t have to do anything that you or the lady is uncomfortable with.
I can understand where your coming from, but as you said:- “if worried that much dont go”

P.s just noticed this post today is number 69 for me , Ironic?
Bareback obviously! LOL!

hi and welcome to lmp

yes the girls are well aware of the do’s and donts of owo

having spoke to clinics about this matter we know…..
not to clean our teeth before or after
not to use abrassive mouth wash, only the soft ones
if we have ulcers or sore throats we know to use a condom
and yes the condoms are always in arms reach and its not unusual for guys to ask for oral with

and could I just point out that there are many things that we do to protect ourselves but you will never notice as we are party girls and no that being to clinical can be a big put off too

hope that puts your mind at rest xxxx

Hi,

Just about decided to attend my 1st LMP party next week on Saturday .

So I thought I would ask here.

1st party, newbie..How long should I stay 2 , 3 or 4 hours?

Ta

captainr3

Book for 4 and if you have to bale before then then that’s all you pay for - LMP will never say you’ve booked for 4 but if its all over after two then that’s tough - the pricing structure is very flexible….or book for two and if the lineup is that good (and believe me its very good) then you can stay for more - so there is no pressure…..enjoy either way….

stevieb - 13 October 2009 02:11 AM

Book for 4 and if you have to bale before then then that’s all you pay for - LMP will never say you’ve booked for 4 but if its all over after two then that’s tough - the pricing structure is very flexible….or book for two and if the lineup is that good (and believe me its very good) then you can stay for more - so there is no pressure…..enjoy either way….

Now thats a good idea.

All I got to do now is to confirm some details and I will book up.

Thanks

Hi, I’ve never been before, but I have a question which I don’t mean to offend or be rude. But I was wondering what kind of safeguards and precautions the girls take against STDs. Do they undergo regular checkups? I would assume so but any information would help put a newbie’s mind at ease.

i think the answer is simple

this is their livelihood, of course they do

Different subject but I see that Forum wise I’m a newbie - what do the various stages of forum participation mean and when do you reach them?

Only 21 posts to go till I’m a junior member - and what happens when I reach this exalted status?

I was on over 500 posts last year… then a DB issue zeroised me! I had to start again! I remember BG’s BS posts just to get his numbers up! LOL!

powerman - 31 October 2009 03:11 AM

Only 21 posts to go till I’m a junior member - and what happens when I reach this exalted status?

You keep posting to move onto the next exhalted level and having fun with the girls

I’m so close to losing my “Jr” tag.

Do i get the keys to the executive washroom then or something??

No fraid not! You get the swing & the large strap on!